The Depth of Christ’s Relationship

The Depth of Christ’s Relationship November 1, 2023

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The essence of discipleship within the Christian faith is often misunderstood or reduced to a mere transfer of spiritual disciplines and activities. In reality, it is a profound process of personally imparting the full dimensions of your relationship with Christ to another individual. The apostle Paul, a prominent figure in the early Christian church, provides invaluable insights into what discipleship truly entails. In Colossians 1:29, he expresses his unwavering commitment to teaching and urging others to experience the person of Christ fully. Paul’s goal was not limited to making people resemble Christ in part, but rather to see them grow into completeness in Him, as evidenced by the fruits of the Spirit and Christ’s character being fully expressed in their lives (Galatians 5:22).

The Distinction Between Activity and Christlikeness

A common misconception in the Christian community is the conflation of Christian activity with Christlikeness. Engaging in Christian activities, such as attending church services, Bible study, or prayer meetings, is undeniably significant, as it can lead individuals toward a deeper relationship with Christ. However, the danger lies in assuming that religious involvement alone equates to a genuine relationship with Jesus. This can lead to a superficial understanding of discipleship, which, as Paul emphasizes, is about acquainting others with the living Person of Christ whom we deeply love.

The Foundation of Discipleship: Relationship

At the core of true discipleship is a personal and transformative relationship with Jesus Christ. It’s not merely about instructing others on religious routines or rituals but rather about guiding them to encounter and walk with Christ daily. Consider John 15:5, where Jesus says, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me, you can do nothing.” This verse highlights the centrality of abiding in Christ. Discipleship is about helping others experience this profound connection, where their lives bear the fruits of the Spirit and reflect the character of Christ.

The Imperative of Spiritual Growth

The apostle Paul’s commitment to seeing others reach completeness in Christ underscores the imperative of spiritual growth in discipleship. Galatians 5:22-23 elaborates on the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. A true disciple-maker should aim to see these fruits being fully expressed through the lives of those they are walking with. It’s not enough to settle for partial growth or occasional acts of kindness; the goal is Christlikeness in all aspects of life.

Do Not Settle for Superficiality

As a disciple-maker, it is your responsibility to guide and nurture those placed under your care until they reach Christian maturity. Discipleship is not a short-term commitment but a lifelong journey of growth in Christ. If you are only encouraging others to engage in Christian activities without leading them to a deeper relationship with Christ, you are falling short of the example set by Paul and, more importantly, the calling of Christ.

About Dr. David K. Ewen
Dr. David K. Ewen is a renowned figure in the realm of Christian ministry, discipleship, and literature. As an ordained minister, he has dedicated his life to teaching and guiding others in their spiritual journey. His passion for nurturing the faith of believers and helping them grow as disciples has led to the publication of numerous books and audiobooks, making his wisdom and insights accessible to a broad audience. Dr. David K. Ewen's contributions to the world of Christian ministry and discipleship are immeasurable. His commitment to helping others grow in their faith and relationship with God, as well as his dedication to spreading the message of Christ, has left a lasting impact on countless individuals. You can read more about the author here.

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