What is gentleness and why should I bother being gentle? An Illustration of Gentleness It was about 12 and a half years ago, almost exactly. I was in the hospital just after the birth of First Girl. I had obviously never been a dad before and had very little experience with newborn babies. She looked so fragile lying there in her bed in the NICU (long story, perhaps for another time). Then the nurse asked me, “Do you want to... Read more